Well this is a subject i been wanting to cover for a lil while now me and the boyfriend was talking about it the other day so it reminded me. as a very talented and very well titled power bottom i know my way around a dick. but one point that i hear a lot really in the "bottom" world is the size of a tops dick i know so many guys who will not fuck a guy unless he is 10' or more but then i know some who will not fuck a guy if he is over 8' or 9' if ur in the latter 10 inches is required for you to ride the ride you are what as know as a "size queen" this also spills into the hetero world but for the point of this blog we talking homo.
When i hear guys talk about size its a big deal to me now let me be honest from the start i used to say if a guy was huge i was only giving them head and i was out the door. but i have grown to like dicks of all shades and sizes ( GROWN to like see what i did there lol ) because i was in a position in a 3 some with a couple and the top had a VERY large dick and i didn't know that till the first time we went to have sex and i didn't just want to back out so i went for it and enjoyed it, don't get me wrong i think its because he knows how to work it because there are a lot of guys with big dicks who just want to RAM BAM an try and slam dance the bottom an which me that shit wont fly!
Also i used to be a top when i first "entered" the gay world and i knew nothing about top,bottoms, or size queens i just had fun.. but as time went on i know i don't have the biggest dick in the world im normal size (i know someone will judge me on that statement alone) which at first was fine for me but as after a while i started to fear running into a size queen an what i have wouldn't be good enough for them that and being a bottom felt good to me. but which that came "is my ass big enough" which at first i personally didn't think so i guess that was the "woman" inside of me but after a while a found out guys love my ass so i found more and more ways to show case it an now i know my boyfriend gets upset with me when he "goes for my dick" i flinch or move because even though he loves me for me and my size, i have this wall built up where i feel like my ass is more important because i am a bottom i know that sounds silly but thats personally how i feel i know i will get over it and i honestly feel that i am slowly turning into a versatile guy because i am with someone who loves me for me and we can just do what feels right to one another it will take time but this is what i feel!
Now on the flip side there are guys out there with small to normal size dicks that can fuck the hell out some ass and thats great thats why for me size doesn't matter as long as you know how to work it, my boyfriend has a normal to big dick like in the middle and i love it, it fits me perfect no matter what position we are in all i feel is pleasure an when he goes to town on my bogina i love every min of it. my point is size should not matter but with everything in the world everyone has what they like and thats all well and good but for this guy i will not be wearing the crown of a size queen!
