i always like to start out by thinking my followers and all of you who take the time out of you busy lives to just read my Lil piece of the Internet. something has come across me that i would never see and that's homophobia but not from straight people but i mean right here in the gay community itself. an no its not closeted homos either its people that are out to there family's but for some people when it comes to hanging out in pubic or if they are in a relationship its not wanting to meet there lovers other gay friends. for the life of me i cant understand people that are like that, you do some much to come out to the world express who you are but shelter yourself away from your own kind. the only reason i can find for this is a form of self judgement within themselves and also peer pressure so to speak because a lot of gay people still stick to hetero ways or stereotypes for gays. as in you see two guys together who one is manly and one fem in the straight world the fem is "the girl" and in the homo world he must be the bottom which can be wrong on SO many reasons
But a lot of versatile or even bottoms feel like they don't want a fem guy to top them which makes no sense to me what so ever. i know it seems I'm getting a little off topic but no really all this runs hand and hand because some guys feel its shameful to have a fem guy top them an hints the not wanting to hang out with his friends and keep them to his self because he will feel like his friends will judge him and feel less then a man. did i miss the memo but what makes you a "man" is you having a penis it stops there period no matter how much anal sex you have as a bottom, dicks you suck and make up and or drag outfits you put on you still have a penis THAT is what makes you a man.
